Psychosexual Therapy
Addressing the Root Causes of Sexual Struggles
When desire fades, pleasure is replaced by pain, or intimacy feels out of reach, the issue often runs deeper than the bedroom.
Grief, shame, trauma, illness, disconnection, or the slow drift of a long-term partnership can all affect your sexual wellbeing — sometimes without you even realising.
Intimacy demands vulnerability — there’s no love without risk.
Our approach is grounded in a biopsychosocial understanding of relationships and sexuality.
We address:
The Body: hormonal changes, menopause, pain, cancer recovery, SSRI-related shifts
The Mind: anxiety, shame, trauma, and inherited messages about sex
The Relationship: mismatched desire, emotional disconnection, conflict, or silence
The Symbolic: kinks, fantasies, and unconscious roles shaping erotic life
A deeper understanding of your sexual self
Relief from shame and secrecy
Reconnection with desire and pleasure
Greater emotional and erotic intimacy
A sexual life rooted in truth rather than fear
The chance to feel at home in your body again
What This Work Can Offer
Our services
Psychosexual Therapy for Men
We offer a safe, non-judgmental space for men to explore challenges such as low desire, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, compulsive porn use, and a sense of disconnection from arousal or intimacy.
Sexual issues can feel deeply isolating, yet they often speak to something more — unmet needs, unspoken fears, or patterns of self-protection that once made sense but now get in the way of closeness.
Our work goes beyond managing symptoms. Together, we uncover what lies beneath, helping you rebuild confidence, reconnect with your body, and experience sex and intimacy as places of genuine connection rather than performance or pressure.
Psychosexual Therapy for Women
We support women in addressing concerns such as vaginismus, pain during sex, low arousal, and menopause-related changes — within a space that is safe, respectful, and free from shame.
These experiences are more common than many realise — and entirely treatable. Our work invites you to reconnect with your body, understand what stands between you and pleasure, and begin to rebuild confidence, desire, and self-trust. Through a compassionate yet honest approach, we help you rediscover a sense of aliveness and connection in your sexual self.
Onco-sexology:
Psychosexual Support After Cancer
After illness or medical treatment, many people feel distant from their bodies, uncertain about desire, or disconnected from intimacy. These changes can be painful — but they are not permanent.
Oncosexology provides a safe, compassionate space to explore what’s changed and what remains possible. Together, we work to gently restore confidence, rekindle pleasure, and rediscover a meaningful connection to your body and sexuality.
Multicultural and Faith-Based Couples
We work with couples whose experiences of intimacy, sex, and conception are shaped by cultural, familial, or religious values.
In a respectful, non-judgmental space, we explore challenges such as unconsummated marriages, shame around desire, or difficulty communicating about sex — with deep sensitivity to the meanings these experiences hold.
Our work supports couples in developing emotional closeness, sexual confidence, and a shared intimate life that honours both their beliefs and their personal growth.
Sexual difficulties are rarely just physical — they live in the body, the mind, the relationship, and the stories we carry about who we are allowed to be. The work here is about understanding what your sexual struggles are asking for, not just trying to silence the symptom.
We work with individuals and couples across a wide range of concerns, always holding your experience with care, curiosity, and respect for your unique identity, body, and relationships.
Areas of Psychosexual Support
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Desire, Arousal & Erotic Connection (All Genders)
Low or fluctuating desire
Loss of libido after illness, stress, or medication (including SSRIs)
Difficulty feeling aroused or staying present during intimacy
Mismatched desire within relationships
Emotional disconnection affecting sexual closeness
Fear, shutdown, or avoidance around intimacy
Performance anxiety and fear of “getting it wrong”
Rebuilding desire after long-term relationship strain
Kink, Fetish & Erotic Identity (All Genders)
Kink and fetish are not problems in themselves. For many, they are rich symbolic languages of desire, power, safety, regulation, and expression. Difficulties arise when kink becomes tangled with shame, secrecy, anxiety, compulsion, or relational rupture.
We offer a non-judgemental, attuned space to explore:
Shame or anxiety around fetishes or kink
Compulsive or conflicted kink use
Desire for BDSM or power exchange within relationships
Disclosure of kink to partners
Mismatched erotic needs
The emotional meaning behind specific fantasies
Integrating kink into a secure, conscious sexual life
This work is not about pathologising desire — it is about helping you understand it and live it with more choice, safety, and connection.
Sexual Pain, Arousal & Orgasm Difficulties (All Genders)
Pain during sex (dyspareunia)
Difficulty reaching orgasm or anorgasmia
Loss of sensitivity or numbness
Arousal and lubrication difficulties
Fear of penetration or physical closeness
Trauma-related shutdown during sexual contact
Neurodivergence, Sensory Differences & Intimacy
Sensory overwhelm or shutdown during touch
Difficulty with traditional sexual scripts
Mismatched sensory needs in relationships
Adapting intimacy to honour different nervous systems
Building sexual confidence without forcing conformity
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Psychosexual Therapy for Men
We support men with difficulties that can feel isolating, identity-shaking, and heavy with unspoken shame. Our work moves beyond performance and into meaning, confidence, and connection.
Erectile difficulties
Premature ejaculation
Delayed or inhibited ejaculation
Performance anxiety and low sexual confidence
Low desire after SSRI use
Porn-related distress or compulsive use
Emotional withdrawal from intimacy
Sexual changes after prostate cancer treatment
Body image and sexual self-esteem
Psychosexual Therapy for Women
We work with women whose bodies, pleasure, and sense of sexual self have often been shaped by silence, shame, or medical trauma. This is a space for gentleness, truth, and reclamation.
Vaginismus
Pain during sex
Low arousal and desire
Menopause-related sexual changes
Postnatal sexual difficulties
Orgasmic difficulty
Arousal and lubrication changes
Sexual confidence after gynaecological surgery
Breast cancer–related sexual changes
Fertility treatment, miscarriage & reproductive trauma
Oncosexology – Sexuality After Cancer (All Genders)
After illness and treatment, many people feel estranged from their bodies, uncertain about desire, or disconnected from intimacy. These changes are deeply human — and they are not the end of your sexual life.
We offer specialist psychosexual support for:
Changes in arousal, desire, and orgasm after cancer
Body image and identity shifts
Sexual confidence after medical treatment
Relationship strain after illness
Relearning pleasure in a changed body
Faith, Culture & Sexuality
We work with individuals and couples whose sexual lives are shaped by cultural, familial, or religious frameworks. This work is held with deep respect for meaning, belief, and complexity.
Unconsummated marriages
Shame around desire
Difficulty speaking about sex
Sexual conflict within faith-based relationships
Bridging tradition and personal sexual truth