Psychosexual Therapy

Addressing the Root Causes of Sexual Struggles

When desire fades, pleasure is replaced by pain, or intimacy feels out of reach, the issue often runs deeper than the bedroom.


Grief, shame, trauma, illness, disconnection, or the slow drift of a long-term partnership can all affect your sexual wellbeing — sometimes without you even realising.

Our approach is grounded in a biopsychosocial understanding of relationships and sexuality.

We address:

  • The Body: hormonal changes, menopause, pain, cancer recovery, SSRI-related shifts

  • The Mind: anxiety, shame, trauma, and inherited messages about sex

  • The Relationship: mismatched desire, emotional disconnection, conflict, or silence

  • The Symbolic: kinks, fantasies, and unconscious roles shaping erotic life

  • Reconnect with your body after surgery, treatment, or trauma

  • Navigate changes in desire, arousal, or sexual function

  • Rebuild emotional and erotic connection with your partner

  • Explore grief, fear, anger, or identity shifts that often accompany illness

  • Reclaim your right to pleasure, presence, and relational closeness

This means you will:

Our services

 

Psychosexual Therapy for Men

We offer a safe, non-judgmental space for men to explore challenges such as low desire, erectile difficulties, premature ejaculation, compulsive porn use, and a sense of disconnection from arousal or intimacy.

Sexual issues can feel deeply isolating, yet they often speak to something more — unmet needs, unspoken fears, or patterns of self-protection that once made sense but now get in the way of closeness.

Our work goes beyond managing symptoms. Together, we uncover what lies beneath, helping you rebuild confidence, reconnect with your body, and experience sex and intimacy as places of genuine connection rather than performance or pressure.

 

Psychosexual Therapy for Women

We support women in addressing concerns such as vaginismus, pain during sex, low arousal, and menopause-related changes — within a space that is safe, respectful, and free from shame.

These experiences are more common than many realise — and entirely treatable. Our work invites you to reconnect with your body, understand what stands between you and pleasure, and begin to rebuild confidence, desire, and self-trust. Through a compassionate yet honest approach, we help you rediscover a sense of aliveness and connection in your sexual self.

Onco-sexology:

Psychosexual Support After Cancer

After illness or medical treatment, many people feel distant from their bodies, uncertain about desire, or disconnected from intimacy. These changes can be painful — but they are not permanent.

Oncosexology provides a safe, compassionate space to explore what’s changed and what remains possible. Together, we work to gently restore confidence, rekindle pleasure, and rediscover a meaningful connection to your body and sexuality.

 

Multicultural and Faith-Based Couples

We work with couples whose experiences of intimacy, sex, and conception are shaped by cultural, familial, or religious values.

In a respectful, non-judgmental space, we explore challenges such as unconsummated marriages, shame around desire, or difficulty communicating about sex — with deep sensitivity to the meanings these experiences hold.

Our work supports couples in developing emotional closeness, sexual confidence, and a shared intimate life that honours both their beliefs and their personal growth.

WE CAN HELP YOU WITH…

  • Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
    Supporting men with challenges in achieving or maintaining an erection by addressing physical, psychological, and lifestyle factors to enhance confidence and intimacy.

    Premature Ejaculation (PE)
    Guiding men to develop techniques for greater control, delayed ejaculation, and increased confidence in intimate moments.

    Delayed or Inhibited Ejaculation
    Exploring physical or emotional factors that hinder ejaculation or orgasm, helping men find ease, satisfaction, and connection.

    Performance Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem
    Helping men overcome fears of sexual performance and feelings of inadequacy, fostering self-confidence and emotional safety in intimate relationships.

    Low Desire After SSRI Use
    Supporting men experiencing reduced libido, arousal, or orgasm due to antidepressants, with strategies to reconnect with desire and pleasure.

    Shame or Anxiety Around Fetishes or Kinks
    Creating a safe space to explore and embrace erotic preferences, reducing shame and building a confident, healthy sexual identity.

    Sensory Challenges During Intimacy (Neurodiversity-Related)
    Assisting neurodiverse men in managing sensory overload or shutdown during intimacy, fostering comfortable and enjoyable experiences.

    Emotional Withdrawal or Avoidance of Intimacy
    Helping men who feel disconnected or avoid intimacy to rebuild trust, emotional connection, and openness in relationships.

    Sexual Function After Prostate Cancer
    Supporting men navigating changes in erection, orgasm, or self-image post-treatment, with a focus on restoring pleasure and connection.

  • Vaginismus
    Support for involuntary vaginal muscle spasms that make penetration painful or impossible, addressing both psychological and physical contributors with sensitivity and care.

    Dyspareunia (Pain During Intercourse)
    Therapeutic guidance to ease persistent pain during sex by exploring physical causes, emotional responses, and relational dynamics.

    Orgasmic Difficulty or Anorgasmia
    Support for individuals struggling to reach orgasm, identifying emotional blocks, physiological factors, and deepening sexual connection.

    Low Desire After Illness or Hormonal Changes
    Specialist support for diminished libido following illness, menopause, or hormonal shifts, with a focus on restoring connection to self and partner.

    Post-Cancer & Gynaecological Surgeries
    Tailored care following breast cancer, hysterectomy, or oophorectomy, supporting identity, intimacy, and arousal in the aftermath of medical treatment.

    Arousal and Lubrication Challenges
    Addressing changes in arousal and lubrication related to menopause, SSRI use, or other medical factors—supporting comfort, confidence, and pleasure.

    Shame or Guilt Around Sexual Desire
    Compassionate space to explore internalised shame or guilt around desire, fostering self-acceptance, erotic confidence, and emotional clarity.

    Infertility, Trauma & Relationship Strain
    Helping couples process the emotional and sexual toll of infertility or reproductive trauma, restoring connection and understanding.

    Touch Sensitivities & Overstimulation (Neurodivergence)
    Support for neurodivergent women navigating sensory sensitivities during intimacy, with affirming, adaptive strategies that honour diverse needs.