Relationships can become strained by unspoken expectations, emotional distance, or the relentless pace of modern life. As a Relationship, Psychosexual, and Psychodynamic Psychotherapist, I understand how these pressures can leave you feeling unseen, disconnected, or stuck. I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples uncover the root causes of disconnection—whether it’s anxiety, shame, illness, or a loss of intimacy—and rediscover joy in their emotional and sexual lives.
My holistic approach draws on a robust biopsychosocial model, integrating all aspects of your life—past and present—to foster deep, lasting change. I offer a warm, sex-positive, and kink-aware space that welcomes complexity and embraces your unique identity and experiences. Rooted in psychodynamic thinking, my work helps bring unconscious patterns into awareness, while my culturally sensitive lens supports healing in an inclusive and non-judgmental environment.
With specialist expertise in oncosexology, I support individuals and couples navigating the sexual impact of illness, helping them reimagine and reconnect with their sexual selves. I’m particularly passionate about working with couples to reignite intimacy, explore desires, and find new ways of being together—especially as they navigate the transitions of aging or the strains of everyday life.
For professionals struggling with work-related stress, anxiety, or self-doubt, I offer tailored support, informed by my own experience in high-pressure creative industries. Before training as a therapist, I spent over a decade working in fashion and film, where I witnessed how the demands of career and family can create emotional and relational distance.
I work in private practice from the calm surroundings of a Fitzrovia townhouse and also within the NHS as a psychosexual therapist at St Mary’s Hospital. Whether you're seeking support as an individual or as a couple, I offer a compassionate, growth-focused space to explore, heal, and reconnect.
Curious about working together?
Gity Monsef Webb
Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist
Psychodynamic Psychotherapist
BA, PGDip, BPC, UKCP, FPC, COSRT
Individuals & Couples
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SPECIALISATION & AREAS OF INTEREST
Relationship Therapy (Couples & Individuals) - I help cut through blame and disconnection, rebuild trust, deepen communication, and rekindle passion—even when facing sexual challenges or life’s ups and downs.
Psychosexual Psychotherapy (Couples & Individuals) - I guide people through sexual difficulties, shame, and discomfort toward greater pleasure and confidence. I also work with menopause, compulsive behaviours, and those wanting to explore intimacy in new ways—all within a safe, supportive space.
Oncosexology - working with cancer and sexual health (Couples & Individuals) - I have a special interest in onco-sexology, supporting those affected by cancer and other medical issues to reclaim intimacy and sexual wellbeing
Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (Individuals) - I support you through life transitions, grief, anxiety, self-discovery, identity, and emotional healing—helping you move forward with confidence and clarity.
Memberships
Clinical Member of the British Psychoanalytic Council (BPC)
Clinical Member of the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP)
Professional Member of The Foundation for Psychotherapy and Counselling (FPC)
Working towards COSRT accreditation
Training
Advanced specialist Post Graduate Diploma in Relationship and Psychosexual Therapy at the Tavistock Relationships.
Post Graduate Diploma in Psychodynamic Theory and Practice, WPF Therapy / University of Roehampton, UK
Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy with world-renowned Tavistock Relationships.
Certificate Introduction to Individuals and Couples Therapy, Tavistock Relationships.
Advanced specialist training in Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy RLT
Psychoanalytic Courses with the Tavistock Clinic, Institute of Psychoanalysis and Tavistock Relationships
Positions in the NHS and charity foundations
Associate Psychosexual Therapist at the Jane Wadsworth Clinic at St. Mary’s Hospital in London.
Associate Perinatal Therapist at South London and Maudsley Trust.
City Pregnancy Counselling Psychotherapy Honorary Psychodynamic Psychotherapist